Bcnorth

I’ve spent my whole life in the town I was born. A big fear has always been people saying things about me. To most who know me I’m a normal wife and mother. I guess a big part of why I am here is I know I’m not alone in doing things some might think odd or unusual. Although I know it, it’s always nice to find others who have experienced similar things.

Ill admit it does bother me when someone asks about something I’ve done and then thinks, no way you could have done that. I find some men think some things are purely fantasy and no one actually acts on them. What I’ve found is that many things people might think of as rare or crazy or impossible are actually quite easy to make happen. Sometimes it’s simply meeting someone who can make you feel comfortable enough to give it a try. With everything you try, more and more becomes less scary.

I find that although I tell myself that I’m sure many others have done similar things, there is this part of my brain that can’t help feeling a bit like a freak. I find it’s comforting when I find others who have been in similar situations.

I'll admit I’m a very nosey person. I simply like knowing things. I’m not a gossip but there is a part of me that just loves knowing secrets.

If I do chat with you and feel you are close minded or presumptuous, as long as you aren't rude, you may find I will challenge your thinking and ask why you think the way you do. An example is a fellow from Victoria. He seemed interesting at first but quite demanding about pictures. I had admitted that flashing has been a kink of mine for years. In his mind, if I was into flashing then I'd certainly send him pics of my breasts. What he failed to realize is a lot of the thrill for me is doing it for someone, in a particular location when I'm in the mood to do it. Flashing someone in person and showing your pics on the Internet are quite different things. Not all men realize this. Some learn, some end up ignored.

Although I have nothing against those who are content to sit behind their screens, fantasize and masturbate, please don’t feel the need to message me and try to talk about your fantasies as reality. I’m most curious about people’s experiences and more the how and why they happened. In a nutshell, I know how I ended up doing the things I have and wonder about others.

Dogging may freak some out but it’s a big part of how I got into a lot of things. If you find it interesting but have never done it, I’d recommend trying to forget all you have seen in 99% of the videos out there. Most of those are made by people using actresses and prositutes and the goal is to make money appealing to you. If you want more of an idea of what it’s really like I’d recommend looking at vids like those Enjayem has posted. Most real dogging encounters will never make it to the internet as pulling out a camera in those types of situations makes most people scatter to the wind.

Please don't try to add me as a friend if we've never talked. I'm not looking to collect friends. Maybe go back and read this line again a few times. Seems many overlook it.

Now it may surprise some, given this site and the things I’ve favourited, that I’m not a fan of pornography. That being said I’m extremely curious and nosey. I do enjoy seeing real people doing things they probably don’t admit to those that know them. I’ve got more than my own share of secrets and it’s always nosey to see someone in a situation I've been in myself. I can’t help but wonder what secrets people I know have. I guess I always hope to see others more like myself, older, not thin. I understand many people are good at keeping them self in shape, I’m not. Just nice to know others like me are just as active.